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“My sincere condolences. I knew Stuart from Macys Funiture Dept. A very nice man. I will miss seeing him at Macys. ”
1 of 14 | Posted by: Cheryl Upton

“Dear Cotler family, I am so sorry to hear about Stuart. I had recently seen him following 30+ years when he, his wife and son attended my late...Read More »
2 of 14 | Posted by: The Cowen family

“Stuart will be very much missed.....I met him 30yrs ago at a G. Fox warehouse sale and we were friends ever since. I could always rely on him to...Read More »
3 of 14 | Posted by: Diane DePalma - Cranston, RI

“My condolences. I met Stuart at Alec's bar mitzvah where he was beaming with pride at his nephew. That kind of love, for family, doesn't die. RIP...Read More »
4 of 14 | Posted by: Linda Klonsky

“Jean, Jonathan and I were very sorry to hear of your loss. We enjoyed speaking to Stuart at the baseball games, and more recently at the in-school...Read More »
5 of 14 | Posted by: Janet Huot - South Windsor, CT

“Ira, Kerri, and Colter family, I did not know your brother Stuart, however; given what I read here about him, his character is of the same quality as...Read More »
6 of 14 | Posted by: Ruthie Baumbach

“I was so sad to hear about Stuart sudden death, and we had many good talks, and times at work. He will be missed by me and all. Paul and I extend our...Read More »
7 of 14 | Posted by: Ellen Ruimerman

“Soo.soo sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing I can say that would possibly help. ”
8 of 14 | Posted by: Janice mann

“I was very sad to learn of Stuart's sudden passing. We knew each other about 30 years and we both had a passion for investing which we discussed a...Read More »
9 of 14 | Posted by: Mike Marandola

“So sorry to hear of Stuart's passing. I remember him as a very kind and gentlemanly person who offered his wisdom and knowledge to those of us...Read More »
10 of 14 | Posted by: A friend

“so sorry for your loss,peace and blessings be apon you. ”
11 of 14 | Posted by: paul stratton

“Dear Cousin we will miss you. Our prayers and thoughts are with Kim and Kenneth during this difficult time. Words can't describe how much you will be...Read More »
12 of 14 | Posted by: Adam Cotler

“Thoughts and prayers to all of Stuart's family and loved ones. Stuart and I worked at Filenes and he would come work the furniture warehouse sales in...Read More »
13 of 14 | Posted by: Michelle Sylvain - Bristol, CT

“We are so sorry for your loss. Todd always enjoyed talking baseball with Stuart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ”
14 of 14 | Posted by: Laura Waterman - South Windsor, CT

Stuart A. Cotler, 55, of South Windsor, beloved husband of Kim (McCormack) Cotler, passed away unexpectedly at his home on Tuesday, July 18, 2017. Born in Queens, NY to Jerrold Cotler and the late Gloria (Zakman) Post, he has been a resident of South Windsor for over 30 years and was a member of Temple Beth Hillel in South Windsor. Stuart earned his bachelor’s degree from the University of Hartford and worked as a salesman at Macy’s. He was an avid NY Mets and NY Jets fan and enjoyed trading in the stock market, but his true passion was his family, especially his son Kenneth. Besides his wife Kim of South Windsor, he is survived by his father Jerrold Cotler and his wife Lynn; his son Kenneth Cotler; his brothers, Ira Cotler and his wife Kerry of Sarasota, FL, Michael Cotler and his wife Pamela of Livingston, NJ; his nieces, Megan Fitzgerald and Gabriella Cotler; and his nephews, Max Cotler, Grant Cotler, Jackson Fitzgerald, Connor Fitzgerald and Alec Cotler. A graveside service will be held at 1 PM Friday, July 21 at the Temple Beth Hillel Cemetery, Vernon. In lieu of flowers please make a memorial donation to the Kenneth Cotler College Fund at and the account #A0G-89N.