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“Downey Family, So sorry for your lost. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family. Jerry Bundy and Dotti Bundy ”
1 of 12 | Posted by: A friend

“To the Downey family, My prayers go out to the family.A friend of her bowling family, ”
2 of 12 | Posted by: Diane Bligh - East Windssor, CT

“So sorry for your loss, Robin. Sending warm thoughts to you and all your family from afar. ”
3 of 12 | Posted by: Annette Kallevig - Oslo, Norway

“I will never forget Joan and the good times that we had. She could be a little devil when she wanted to be, I can still see the glint in her eye, and...Read More »
4 of 12 | Posted by: Dale Hucker - Simsbury, CT

“To the Downey Family,Joan was such a fun-loving person, and was quick to tell stories of her adventurous life!She always spoke of her children with...Read More »
5 of 12 | Posted by: A friend

“No words can express the love and fun times I had with Joan. Always in my heart❤ ”
6 of 12 | Posted by: Sandra Barse - Southington, CT

“In loving memory of my Aunt Joan... she will missed dearly.... some of my fondest childhood memories of her will never be forgotten. ”
7 of 12 | Posted by: Todd Graham - Warrenton, VA

“My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I will miss making my annual phone call to Joan on her birthday we would talk and laugh for hours. The...Read More »
8 of 12 | Posted by: Diane Andreoli - Hudson, FL

“So sorry to hear this, we had so many fun times. ”
9 of 12 | Posted by: Rick Carr - Wood River, IL

“You will be missed. Be at peace now. Know that you touched many lives. A friend of Robin's.. ”
10 of 12 | Posted by: Lee Ann (Chupka) Dangelo - CT

“My deepest and heartfelt sympathy to the family of Mrs. Downey. May the True God lessen your grief as He cares for you in your time of sorrow. May...Read More »
11 of 12 | Posted by: B Pittman - Richmond, VA

“So sorry for your loss Emil. Prayers are sent to you and family ”
12 of 12 | Posted by: Sharon & Jim - West Hartland, CT

Joan Ann Downey, 75, of Canton, beloved wife of the late Emil L. Downey for 43 years, passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family on Sunday, October 8, 2017. Joan was born in New Haven on June 3, 1942, the daughter of the late Stanley and Vera (Latimer) Lasko. Joan was raised, attended schools, and worked for a number of years in East Hartford, and she resided in Canton for the last 50+ years. Following her marriage to Emil, they spent many wonderful years sharing beautiful memories together. She took an immediate interest in bowling and soon became an accomplished and competitive bowler. She was a member of the Greater Hartford Women’s Bowling Association for over 25 years and served as the organization’s President. She was also a National Delegate for the Women’s Bowling Association and competed for over 25 years in the Women’s National Bowling Tournament. Joan also loved to stay active and found great enjoyment in traveling with her family. She raced snowmobiles and off-road jeeps competitively, and loved to play tennis and ski. Despite all of her athletic pursuits, Joan’s family was her greatest passion and she loved the time she was able to spend with her children and grandchildren. She had a kind and generous soul, and a playful sense of humor that truly made her a loving wife, mother, and grandmother. She will be dearly missed every day. Joan is survived by her son, Emil L. Downey II and Yvonne Dobre; her daughter, Robin Downey-Murphy and Vincent Murphy; and grandchildren, Cole Murphy, Kyle Murphy, and Heather Murphy. In addition to her husband and parents, she was predeceased by her brothers, Stanley and Bobby Lasko, and her sister, Judy Graham. Joan’s family will hold a private funeral ceremony at their convenience. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Joan’s memory may be made to the National Kidney Foundation, 1463 Highland Ave., Cheshire, CT 06410. The Carmon Funeral Home & Family Center of Avon is in care of the arrangements. For online condolences or to share a memory with the family, please visit